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Giving Reasons?

Giving reasons are our forte! We all love to give reasons for everything that we can't do, don't want to do, forgotten to do or just waste away. So our mind has this great capacity to find out hundreds of reasons why we are not doing it.  Where do we learn that?  As a child we have given ourselves the leeway to find answers for all our misdoings. Even if we take up a candy found in someone's bag and have eaten it, we won't tell or we wouldn't own up to eating it. This is a kind of a defensive behavior and a method of getting past our silly crimes. We learn to tell white lies and stand up to ourselves when we feel suppressed.  As we grew up, this habit grew with us. So in studies too, when the chips were down, we came up with various unknown illnesses, disasters, deaths, shortages and what nots as reasons for failing to perform. Later, it continued in the job front when we met our first set of disappointments. Later we lost our jobs and so the easiest way of getting

Red Rose Is About Love!

Red rose is about love, pink is for like, white is for purity and yellow is for friendship. If colors could determine the emotions then what would make the blind man understand?  Someone telling him that the color of the rose he got from that admirer is yellow! But what if he has no knowledge about the essence of the colors or what they stand for? Everything seems a waste.  So when someone says it's important to express your feelings verbally, know that it's important to do so. Stop playing with symbolism since half of the world people are idiots. They are born dunces or have become one. So expressions in words and saying it straight is important. So if you love someone say it straight and don't beat round the rose bush! Don't you know that the people who are in love behave like perfect idiots and dunces?  Talking straight to God is also very important! So are prayers to God. You better express the wants perfectly in words without errors otherwise you may get into troub

Failures Are Obstacles

Failures are obstacles placed in the successful pathway of life. So what is the feeling that you would have when the one thing that you were actually working hard for slips out from your hands? Dejection or depression? Or would you work doubly hard to achieve that result once again? It all depends upon the way you look at it.  If your future depends upon the decision favoring you then you would go all out and get it. But if it doesn't mean much to you then you wouldn't be up to making amends.  It's the same thing when your deepest desire is not met. Maybe it's a seat in some fancy university or just an audition for some contest, you loosing it can cause you a lot of heartburn. Or your girlfriend walking away with your best friend and leaving you high and dry. The deepest feeling of incompetence and failure can be devastating for a few.  There are those who take it so much to heart that they end their lives and some take to alcohol or some other means of getting over the

You Are Dispensable.

You are dispensable.  We all believe the world will come to a standstill or end if we are not there to solve its issues. The world of chaos is what you go back to once you are back from your journey. You have focused in your world so much that now when you have to refocus again on your mundane existence, everything seems to be out of place.  There is discipline or conformity where you work. You kept your stuff which may be utility, utensils or office stationary, perfectly in an ideal place and you went on an holiday or some official tour. You returned after a period of two to three weeks and find that the whole scheme of things are disturbed. You do not seem to find the simplest of the stuff. You always kept it in one particular place and now that doesn't exist.  Ever little thing seems to be out of place. You are not able to find your stuff anywhere. So what do you do?  You are angry and frustrated. You wonder which idiot was disturbing your stuff which was in a perfect place hold

Responsive Stupor

What is responsive stupor? It is that which makes you unable to move or perform the silliest of the tasks in our day to day life! Why am I confused in life? Why don't I find what I want to do? Where am I going today? Do I really have any answers? You always say, I don't know what I am supposed to do. So help me please and show me some light. Tell me what I am to do! I have been racking my brain trying to think of some answers and still I don't have any. On top of it all my head hurts so much. I am having a stinking headache. I need a vacation. Can I run away somewhere? I wish I could have some answers!  This is the story of everyone's life so don't go and deny it. You have always found yourself in a completely disrupted state, confused beyond doubts and unable to focus on anything at all. You are always running away from the scene and wanting someone to give you answers.  People try such stupid and funny stuff to get answers. Sometimes even dangerous! People go to a

Are Women Born Unequal?

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